Is the Mormon religion a cult?

Alright, so earlier today i asked a question about my doubts on my mormon religion. I have a lot of doubts. I'll list some of them: How can i be apart of a religion that doesn't accept s(i believe they should be treated with fairness) the church seems to be pretty ist. There are no female prophets,men are only allowed to hold the priesthood, and i've had numerous Young Women leaders give lessons discussing how the women are expected to have children, stay at home, and pretty much make their husband happy. Yeah right. Maybe it is just the people i've encountered but this whole religion seems to be pretty judge mental, unforgiving and almost ist.I'm not your "cookie cutter" mormon teenage girl. I don't know care about my future husband going on a mission, I could care less about getting married, i do not want kids at all, and i care more about getting into an ivy league college than getting married in the temple. So my question is, is the mormon religion really a cult? I've had tons of people tell me i live in a cult, and honestly a church that doesn't respect women as much as men, and that has rules like no drinking coffee, before marriage must be a bit sketchy right? The way i see it is, you could have out of marriage, not have children or not be married but still a great person